How to Build a Life You’re Actually Excited About

Ever feel like you’re ticking all the boxes but can’t shake the feeling that something’s missing? Maybe you’re kicking goals at work, your Insta feed looks ace, and from the outside, you’re “making it”. Although, inside you still feel stuck, restless, or unsure why success isn’t as satisfying as you thought it would be.

If that resonates, you’re definitely not alone. Many young professionals, entrepreneurs, and growth seekers reach a point where chasing external achievements just doesn’t cut it. This blog is for you if you’re ready to swap autopilot for intention, ignite your motivation, and create a life that feels as good on the inside as it looks on the outside.

Here’s how to build a life you’re actually excited about; one step at a time, with plenty of real talk along the way.

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Define Your Values & Vision

Why Your Values Matter

Trying to build a meaningful life without knowing your personal values is like using Google Maps without entering a destination. You end up wandering, at the mercy of other people’s goals and expectations.

When I first left my full-time job and stepped into the business world, I said yes to every project and opportunity. I wanted to impress, sure, but I also didn’t know what I personally stood for. The result? Burnout and anxiety. The first big shift came not from “finding myself,” but from creating myself, starting with a values assessment.

Conducting a Values Assessment

Set aside 15 minutes. Write down:

• What gives you energy?

• What drains you?

• Who do you admire, and why?

Now circle recurring themes (like creativity, freedom, connection, security, or growth). These are likely your core values. Don’t overthink it.

Create a Personal Vision Board or Statement

Whether you love a Pinterest board or prefer scribbling on paper, visualise what your dream life looks like. Picture where you are, who’s around, what you’re doing, and how you feel. Your vision acts as a north star that guides the choices you make every day.

Tip: Revisit your vision board or statement regularly. Adjust as your goals evolve. This is YOUR creation, not a test you need to “pass.”

Set Meaningful Goals

Intrinsic vs. Extrinsic Goals

Not all goals are created equal. Extrinsic goals (job titles, money, followers) might look impressive, but they rarely feed your soul. Intrinsic goals, like building meaningful relationships or developing a skill you’re passionate about, tend to have a much bigger impact on your motivation and mental health.

Hot take: I used to chase titles and pay rises. Sure, a bigger pay cheque is nice, but the buzz faded fast. Learning something new or helping someone? That made my week.

Use the K.I.S.S. Framework

When you’ve got a million ideas on the go, complexity is the enemy. That’s where my counsellor’s mantra, K.I.S.S. (“Keep It Simple Stupid”), comes in. When your mind is racing with big business plans or lofty personal ambitions, take a breath and ask:

• What’s the simplest next step I can take right now?

• Which goals will have the biggest “feel good” impact on my life now?

Keeping things small and achievable isn’t playing small; it’s about building real, sustainable momentum.

Build a Supportive Environment

Audit Your Circle

Your environment matters more than you think. Take a (gentle) stocktake of your relationships. Ask:

• Who energises, uplifts, or inspires me?

• Who do I leave feeling drained or doubting myself?

I once stayed in a networking group because it was familiar, but when I started spending time with more supportive people (the ones that want the best for you, not from you), my motivation skyrocketed. Curate your circle intentionally.

Seek Out Communities That Share Your Values

Don’t underestimate the power of joining communities, even online groups. Whether it’s a business mastermind, book club, women in tech network, or the Fearless Pursuit community, find your tribe.

Australian Bonus: There are amazing local meetups from Sydney to Perth focused on entrepreneurship, mental health, and personal growth. Check platforms like Meetup or Eventbrite, or DM someone from your industry on LinkedIn. You’re not “bothering” anyone by wanting to grow.

Embrace Continuous Learning

Commit to Lifelong Learning

Building a life you love isn’t a “one and done” situation. I’m a big believer that no matter your path, curiosity will keep you feeling energised and connected.

You don’t need another degree to start learning (unless, of course, you want one!). Try reading widely, listening to podcasts, attending affordable workshops, or following inspiring accounts.

Diversify How You Learn

• Read everything, from business stories to novels. (Pro tip: Libraries and Op Shops save money.)

• Listen to podcasts while commuting or doing chores.

• Sign up for short online courses that fit your budget and schedule.

• Get involved in webinars or live Q&As for an interactive boost.

When you invest in your growth mindset, you fuel your purpose and career more than any fancy certification.

Take Inspired Action & Build Momentum

Break Down Your Goals

Big goals can be overwhelming. Break them into super-manageable steps. If your vision is to launch a side hustle, your actionable steps could look like:

• Brainstorm five business ideas this week.

• Book a chat with a mentor in your field.

• Set up a basic Instagram page.

Celebrate Small Wins

Waiting to celebrate until you “arrive” is a trap. Recognise every little step forward:

• Sent out your first networking email? That counts.

• Shared a vulnerable post on LinkedIn? Huge.

• Took your first walk after weeks of feeling low? Massive.

I used to brush off these “tiny” wins. Now, I celebrate them. Small victories create momentum that keeps you moving through setbacks.

The Ongoing Adventure of Building a Life You Love

There’s no finish line when it comes to building a life you’re excited about. You’ll have days that feel incredible and others that feel like you’re back at square one. That’s not failure; that’s growth.

Here’s my final encouragement (learnt the hard way): Don’t wait for permission to change direction, set new goals, or rewrite your future. Life isn’t about finding yourself; it’s about creating yourself each day, in ways big and small.

Every person’s path looks different and that’s something to celebrate. Share your story, ask for help when you need it, and don’t be afraid to start small. Progress is progress.

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